“To Feel” List

Black and white close-up of a flower.

There are just 30 days left in 2022.

This entire year has sped by; it feels like it should still be May or June. I am focusing on spending this final month as intentionally as I can. This means slowing down, paying attention, and being mindful.

Somewhere on Instagram, I saw the suggestion to create a “To Feel” list. (I can’t remember where, unfortunately. I need to jot down more in my commonplace book.) I love this idea because it helps to clarify not just what we need to do, but how, or even if, we want to do it.

My “To Feel” list includes:

  • Confidence
  • Wonder and curiosity
  • Delight
  • Pride (in both my choices and accomplishments)
  • A sense of safety and belonging
  • Peace and groundedness

Now, I’ll backwards plan and prioritize decisions or events or opportunities that spark these feelings.

This process will be helpful going into the new year, too: centering your values, and assessing to what extent your current life overlaps with them, is a useful tool for goal-setting.

By Ingrid Murray

Ingrid is an American self-taught mixed media artist and art journaler living and working in Germany. This website is human-generated.